About the devorce
I was in love with my wife, And we got married in the year 2009,And our marriage was arranged in the Alan di temple in Pune, But marriage wasn't registered in the court in between we had many quarrels and we saperated and again we came together, She use to behave properly for few months and again the same,She allways doubts on me even she is with me for 24 hours,She literally keeps watch on me, There is no private life of mine or even doesn't allow me to take decisions, And keeps on nagging on some or the other matters, She has lost her brother recently (month ago) and her mother is bed ridden,I feel soft corner as she don't have anyone left in her family. But even I am in depression due to her behaviour, So can anyone pls guide me for decision should I take divorce or not and what legal action will I face more
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Meditation and mediation is the things you can try for. Meditation will give you peace of mind AND mediation will give both of you some re-leaf. It seems the situation which makes her to doubt everybody in her life. more
Dec 14
We must give due credit to him that he knows basics of love & married life . Certainly he has tried all that & that's why he is seeking help in this forum. more
Dec 10
adjust with her some time as normal go out side with her, stop replying her if she murmured. She will automatically adjust with you. more
Dec 10
Adjusting is the best advise. However, the advise of adjusting the life could not be in isolation without understanding the root cause. It is seen that delays in taking decisions could be disastrous if not understood properly and may even land him up in jail looking at the tendency of abuse of laws. This is the ground reality whether liked or not liked. more
Dec 11
Mr Sachin shah . you have not mentioned about you children.you feel bad for her mother .it seems to me ,you are a person with compassion. You must try to find out what could be the reasons for her indifferent behavior. finally after marriage male has to create balance .There must be some negative forces around her ,in the form of friends,her expectations or tiredness,or lack of congregational satisfaction te is not take things in positive spirit and take genuine care of her. Divorce is not the answer of all marital problems. if you re marry ,what is the guarantee that another women will be better. Most probably she is suffering from marital en security. This can be ensured by you only.Both of you take part in religeous activity together.YOUR problem will be resolved. after 8 year of marriage if you take divorce course ,it will make both of you life miserable.Time flies. more
Dec 09
https://www.cypcs.org.uk/rights/uncrcarticles/article-9 Please go through the article 9 of the UNCRC more
Dec 08
