What is sexual harassment at workplace

DEAR MEMBERS, THE REAL HINDUS, MUSLIMS AND CHRISTIANS ARE ALWAYS RESPECTFUL TO WOMEN AND MEN. WHAT WE ARE WITNESSING IN WORK PLACES AND PUBLIC PLACES IS NOTHING BUT THE "STRAY DOG ' CULTURE WHICH HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE TREND IN INDIAN CINEMAS , WHICH ALL SCOUNDRELS FOLLOW . THE RESULT IS WHAT IS CALLED "SEXUAL HARASSMENT. RIGHT ?? SO WHAT IS THE ALTERNATIVE SOLUTION TO THIS MATING PROBLEM ?? IN MORE CIVILIZED COUNTRIES , MEN AND WOMEN VISIT THE PUB , NOT ONLY TO HAVE A DRINK , BUT TO SEARCH FOR WILLING SEXUAL PARTNERS,FOR A DATE, ETC. SO THE QUESTION IS WHAT SHOULD THE INDIAN METHOD BE ?? MARRIAGE IS DEFINITELY NOT THE ALTERNATIVE, AS SOME MORONS WOULD LIKE TO SUGGEST, AS "SEXUAL BOREDOM" IS THE RESULT . I HAD DEALT IN DETAIL WITH THE ISSUE OF "SEXUAL CRIMES" IN THE AUGUST 1996 ISSUE OF "DEBONAIR" MAGAZINE AS PART OF THE NATION WIDE INVITE TO READERS VIEWS ON THE SUBJECT. MOST OF MY SUGGESTIONS WERE "EDITED" AND NOT PUBLISHED AT THAT TIME. BUT NOW THE COURTS HAVE BECOME MORE "MATURE AND CIVILIZED' IN THEIR JUDGMENTS, ALLOWING "LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIPS" AND EVEN HOMOSEXUALS , LESBIANS, ETC. TO LIVE TOGETHER. IN THE "RAMAYANA" THE SYSTEM OF " SWAYAM VARA" WHEREBY THE WELL-INFORMED AND KNOWLEDGEABLE WOMAN WAS ALLOWED TO CHOOSE HER LIFE PARTNER .WHY NOT INDIANS FOLLOW THIS EXEMPLARY EXAMPLE , PROVIDED THE WOMAN IS ENABLED TO PERSONALLY KNOW ALL ABOUT THE ACTUAL HEALTH AND CHARACTER OF THE MAN, REGARDING SEXUAL HEALTH & WEALTH ?? SUPPORTING A WIFE AND FAMILY REQUIRES LOTS OF WEALTH NOWADAYS. ONLY THOSE WHO CAN SUPPORT A WIFE AND FAMILY, WITHOUT RELYING ON LOANS, ETC. SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO MARRY FOR FAMILY PURPOSES. UNLESS "MARRIAGE LICENCES " FOR ALL RELIGIONS ARE MADE MANDATORY MEN AND WOMEN ARE LIKELY TO BE EXPLOITED IN ALL KINDS OF WAYS, BY CRIMINALS IN BLACK UNIFORM AND KHAKI UNIFORM AS WELL. IN MORE CIVILIZED SINGAPORE, MARRIAGES ARE FEW AND CHILDREN ARE FEWER. THE GOVT. GIVES HUGE REWARDS TO SINGAPOREANS FOR GETTING MARRIED AND BRINGING UP YOUNG SINGAPOREANS DUE TO A SMALL POPULATION THERE. IF THE GOVT. OF INDIA IS INTERESTED IN BRINGING DOWN THE POPULATION EXPLOSION , IT MUST ALLOW ONLY THOSE WITH SUFFICIENT MEANS AND INCOME, TO BRING UP A FAMILY. UNDERWORLD DON "DAWOOD -BHAI" WAS THE TENTH SON OF A POOR AND ALCOHOLIC MUMBAI POLICEMAN ! THIS TREND STILL CONTINUES ALL OVER INDIA WHILE THE BJP AND RSS ACTIVISTS ARE SHOUTING HOARSE ABOUT "MUSLIM DOMINATION" !! IN WEST BENGAL, MUSLIM YOUTH ARE FREE TO MARRY AS MANY GIRLS AS THEY CAN. ONE YOUTH, DRESSED AS A TRAIN TICKET EXAMINER, MARRIED 72 (SEVENTY TWO) TIMES, ACCORDING TO A NEW INDIAN EXPRESS REPORT , ABOUT 10 YEARS AGO !! HOWZZAAAT !! I STILL HAVE A COPY OF THAT NEWS REPORT. THE "STRAY DOG CULTURE" OF MALE DOG FOLLOWING AND CHASING A FEMALE DOG MUST END . FEMALES MUST BE ALLOWED TO CHOOSE . OTHERWISE, ALL KINDS OF SCOUNDRELS WILL CONTINUE HARASSING ANY GIRL ON THE STREETS. GIRLS MUST BE ABLE TO INVITE GUYS TO THEIR HOME , FOR A CUP OF "NESCAFE" , WITH THE APPROVAL OF THEIR PARENTS. THIS IS HOW I USED TO HAVE SOME GIRL-FRIENDS , WHILE IN BANGALORE. ANY FELLOW SEEN "STALKING" A GIRTL MUST BE DEALT WITH SEVERELY, IF SHE DOES NOT APPROVE. GIRLS USED TO APPROACH ME , OFFER A HANDSHAKE WHILE INTRODUCING THEMSELVES . THIS , MY FRIENDS, IS WHAT CIVILIZED BEHAVIOUR IS ALL ABOUT. ARE INDIANS CIVILIZED ?? I HOPE SO more  

Thanks for bringing the attention to this social evil. more  

Since we belong to a Land recognized as Bharat, I would invite readers to reflect upon the story of King Dushyant and Shakuntala. King is the Boss and it is improper to make a proposition to a female subject of his Kingdom. As per this presentation, the action of the King constitutes violation of the Sexual Harassment Policy. Being the King, he should not have married Shakuntala taking advantage of marriage tradition called Gandharva. It would have been more appropriate if the King sent his proposal to her parents and obtained her consent using the services of a third-party. For example, Princess Rukmini used a messenger to Krishna not only to give consent for marriage but also to abduct her from her legal custodians. Shakuntala paid a price for her choice. more  

Women to Men also universal truth, as my self is sufferer at work place. Then what to do in that embracing scenario. Please direct over the issue in view to moral support. more  

Though it is a very good presentation and very illustrative pictures. Should be circulated and should become a subject of study. more